BIBLE READINGS: Colossians 1: 15-28 Luke 10: 38-42
SERMON
Who feels sorry
for Martha? I know I do. There she is preparing the food, and her sister is
forgetting her duty to be hospitable! Every time I read or hear the story, I
think: “The story could end better. If everyone went into the kitchen -
including Jesus - then everyone could have sat at Jesus feet. And the dishes
would get done, too!”
Jesus is visiting
some close friends. As friends will do when they have a special visitor,
Martha was scurrying around preparing and serving a meal. Mary, on the
other hand, sat at Jesus' feet listening to him. Most of us, I suspect,
immediately identify with Martha. She complained to Jesus suggesting to
him that he order Mary to help with the work. He refused to interfere. Instead
he said to her, "Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things."
He did not call
her to task about what she was doing. He accepted her service and
hospitality. Such things were important to him. But she was 'distracted'
with all the serving. It was her distraction from what was important that
caused him to respond as he did. Her anxiety about all the details kept
her from the most important thing, really enjoying the opportunity to be with
Jesus, to spend time together, to talk, and to listen to one another. She
was missing out on the best part of friendship. She was obsessed with 'doing'
rather than 'being'.
It can be easy
for us to become distracted by many things. We can be more interested in
accumulating wealth or power than in being who we are meant to be. And it
is not wealth that is wrong. It is being distracted by wealth that is wrong.
The accumulation of wealth can become our whole focus in life. It can
distract us from building relationships. It can distract us from assuming our
responsibilities.
Material things
did not distract Martha, but rather what she was doing. We can also be
distracted by doing rather than being. Surely one of society's greatest
distractions is connected with our role. We are
far more concerned with what we do than with who we are. We are concerned with
what our role is, or what we are contributing to society. We define who
we are by the importance of our job.
Have you ever
noticed that when you meet someone, they will ask your name and what you do? We
often seem to define ourselves by what we do, or our family relationships.
Those who find themselves suddenly unemployed are confronted with a sense of
loss. Along with employment, no matter what work we do, comes a certain
amount of prestige. When we lose our job, we wrongly lose our sense of who we
are. We define ourselves by what we do, and by what we have accomplished.
Imagine introducing yourself without saying anything about what you do, or about
your family, just about you. Who are you? What would you tell people
about yourself?
Martha had a
wonderful sense of service. She was well organised, and enthusiastic, a
wonderful hostess; but service, even sacrifice can be spoiled by self-concern and
self-pity. Good works can become a misery to the doer and a tyranny to
others. When what we are doing gets to the point that it distracts us then
something has gone wrong and we need to do something about it. We need to
concern ourselves with being, rather than doing.
"One thing
is needful," Jesus told Martha. Yes, we are to be servants in the
world. That is certainly the message of the Gospel. That is certainly the
call of discipleship. Martha understood that call. She understood it
well. What she did not understand was that the assignment begins at the
feet of Jesus. It returns us periodically to Mary's place of quietness and
strength. Mary knew that it was at the feet of Jesus that she would renew
her strength.
It is through the
life of prayer that we get in touch and keep in tune with God. We need
times of quiet renewal in our lives. It is through Word and Sacrament that we
are renewed and revitalised. From our worship we are sent out into our
Monday through Saturday journey into the world to serve. There we transmit some
small touch of divine love and power to the despairing, suffering and
lonely.
A story to
finish. The Lord was coming to Wendy’s house. She wanted everything to be
just right, so she scrubbed it from top to bottom. She cleaned and
polished until the place shone. Then she laid the table with her best
tablecloth. She polished the silver and put out my best china. There were
candles and matching napkins. Everything looked quite wonderful.
When Jesus came
into her house she greeted him at the door. She
lavished attention on him. She made certain the conversation did not lag.
He seemed to be most appreciative of their time together. But when he left,
Wendy realised that something was bothering her, something she couldn't quite
put her finger on.
Then a question
arose from somewhere inside her. What did Jesus want? Food? Hospitality?
She wondered. But then a second question, a more important one, came to
her. "What did he want to give? She felt sure he wanted to give her
something. But whatever it was, she hadn’t give him
any opportunity to offer it.