BIBLE READINGS:    Romans 1:1-7     Matthew 1:18-25





Once upon a time there lived a fisherman and his wife.  Their home was a humble two roomed cottage with a tiny garden and a well.  Every day the fisherman would go out in his little boat and in the evening bring home his catch, sometimes good, sometimes poor.  This was their livelihood.


But the fisherman's wife was discontented.  "Why should I have to live in this hovel? Is it too much to expect a decent home with water and electricity and a kitchen?   I wish I was a lady." Her continual grousing made the fisherman quite miserable.


One day, something happened which changed their lives.  The man caught a strange and beautiful fish which startled him by speaking.  "Please thrown me back into the sea and I'll grant whatever you wish."


The fisherman thought a bit and then replied, "So be it.  I wish my wife was a lady and lived in a proper house with water, electricity and a kitchen."


When he returned that evening he found that his wish had been granted, and his wife was very pleased.  But as the months passed, she began to grumble again, "Is it too much to expect something better than this pokey house?  I wish I was a Duchess, with a mansion and servants and a carriage. Why did you ask for so little? I'm sure the fish meant us to do better than this."


Driven by her complaints nagging, the fisherman tried to contact the fish again and rowed his boat to the spot.  No sooner had he called than the fish appeared and agreed to his request.


But the duchess was still not satisfied.  Within a month she was grumbling and complaining again.  "I wish I was a queen, go and see your fish again". And so he did.


Life in the palace was luxurious, but the fisherman's wife, now a queen, wasn't content for long.  "What I would really like" she said, "would be to be God. I'm sure your fish will understand that this is what I wanted all along."


When the man returned from his last visit to his fishy friend, he found no palace on the shore, no mansion, not a  house. Not even his little old cottage was there. But then he heard crying, and noticing a cave in the cliff face, he went closer.  Inside it was fashioned into a rough stable. There were 2 oxen and a donkey. And in the manger a little baby lay crying."


The fisherman's wife had her wish.


The wife had, of course, forgotten what God is like in this world, in human flesh. She'd forgotten about Christmas and Easter.  She'd forgotten about the manger and the cross. She'd forgotten that our God is a God who comes and who identifies with his people, and especially with the poorest and the most humble of people. It is so easy to forget what it cost Jesus to come to earth as one of us.


The Almighty God, Creator and King of the Universe, gave up his heavenly throne, gave up being worshipped and adored by angels, in order to come to us and to give us heaven. God was born as a baby in Bethlehem, knowing that the cross would follow as surely as night follows day. Greater love has no one than this - that they lay down their life for their friends.


This is the love of Christmas - God laid aside his throne - and in Jesus became one of us, like us in every way - and being one of us he went even further and gave his life for us. The most important part of the Christmas story is love. It is the love of God that brings to us the hope and the peace and the joy that we need. And it is our love for one another in Christ's name - that makes Christmas worthwhile.


As you finish your preparations for Christmas, less than a week away now, listen to the words of St. Paul concerning love in a fresh way. 


If I decorate my house perfectly with plaid bows, strands of twinkling lights and shiny balls, but do not have love, I'm just another decorator.

If I slave away in the kitchen, baking dozens of Christmas cakes, preparing gourmet meals and arranging a beautifully adorned table at mealtime, but do not have love, I'm just another cook.

If I volunteer to work with the homeless, carol in the nursing home and give all that I have to charity, but do not have love, it profits me nothing.

If I trim the Christmas tree with shimmering angels, attend lots of holiday parties and sing in the choir's cantata but do not focus on Christ, I have missed the point.

Love stops the cooking to hug the child.

Love sets aside the decorating to kiss the spouse.

Love is kind, though harried and tired.

Love doesn't envy another's home that has coordinated  Christmas china and table linens.

Love doesn't yell at the kids to get out of the way.

Love doesn't give only to those who are able to give in return but rejoices in giving to those who can't.

Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never fails.  Video games will break, pearl necklaces will be lost, golf clubs will rust.

But giving the gift of love will endure.


The gift of love will endure.  Indeed - that is what Christmas is all about.  The gift of love.   


I would like to conclude with a Christmas Greeting written by a couple and sent out to their friends and family some 40 years ago - the year that they had a daughter born with Downs Syndrome.  This is part of what they wrote:


Into a world of strength and pride a child is born, weak and humble, having no power - except that power which alone can conquer all others: Love. Such was, and is, Christmas.